COMMENTS and REMINDERS

WORTHY SUGGESTIONS FOR PARENTS OF SWIMMERS

Do not ask him to fulfill your big wishes that you cannot fulfill…
Remember that swimming is an activity of your child and the developments resulting from this activity are at different levels for each child.
Never compare your child's development with other children and don't let them think they are doing what you want them to do.
Make him feel that he has your support no matter what... The only question you will ask him at the end of the training or race should be 'did you have fun?'.
If your child does not have fun with what they do, it is an indication that you will have problems with continuity. Don't try to coach your child…
Regardless of your sporting background, do not try to coach your child. Remember that the duty of parents is to give their children their love and make them feel their support. Do not convey criticism to your child that will shake his/her trust in the coach.
No matter what, love your child and hug him, because coaching is only the technical part of training.
Never make any comments to your child about his technique or race strategy.
Never offer rewards that will encourage your child for success, as this will cause your child to deviate from his goals and, more importantly, affect his bond with his coach.
Give constructive and positive words to your child when taking him or sending him to training...
If you are taking your child to training or picking him up after training, use motivating words, do not criticize him or his coach.
If your child has fears and shortcomings, accept them and act accordingly...
Your child may be afraid of water when you take him to his first workout. Don't go overboard and make him even more anxious, don't make harsh or coercive moves.
Remember that your job is to make him feel your love and support him.
Do not criticize the officials at the pool... Remember that they are doing their best.
Make your child feel that you are very proud of his coach... The bond between your child and his coach is very special, he wants to contribute to your child's success and have fun at the same time.
Bad comments about your child's coach in front of your child will only affect your child's swimming. Be loyal and supportive of your team…
Constantly changing teams is never recommended for any athlete; the problems experienced may also occur in another club.
Even champion teams may experience some internal problems. When a team change occurs, your child may not be accepted by other teammates in a short time, and this may negatively affect his training motivation.
Let your child have goals other than winning... Although most successful swimmers can learn to train and improve themselves, they fail to evaluate the results.